There are no rules when it comes to choosing wedding readings. Explore ideas ranging from poems like : Will I Have to be Sexy at 60, to a Harry Potter excerpt
Wedding readings and quotations can set the mood, be it romantic, literary, traditional or contemporary, sentimental or instructive. Excerpts from Kahlil Gibran's, The Prophet (Love one another but make not a bond of love) are among the most popular wedding readings, but there are many others which are just as meaningful and perhaps more suitable.
Famous wedding poems or those penned by a friend can be used. There are no rules about what can and cannot be read at a wedding, but the readings should be appropriate to the style or theme of the wedding ceremony and the atmosphere you want to create.
Traditional Weddings Theme
A traditional marriage ceremony would probably include traditional or literary readings, for example, Sonnet 116 from Shakespeare, Let Me Not to the Marriage of True Minds Admit Impediment which speaks beautifully of loving your partner just as he or she is, whithout trying to change them.
A favourite book could be the inspiration for a wedding quotation, such as A Room With A View by E.M. Forester :
“You must marry, or your life will be wasted. You have gone too far to retreat. I have not time for the tenderness, and the comradeship, and the poetry and the things that really matter and for which you marry.”
Unconventional Weddings
Less traditional couples who want to celebrate a shared sense of humour can choose from several funny marriage poems. They can be a refreshing change for the guests, too. Modern British poet, Pam Ayres, famous for Yes, I’ll Marry You My Dear, has another funny poem suitable for a wedding. It can be found in her collection called With These Hands. It begins :
Will I have to be sexy at sixty?
Will I have to keep trying so hard?
Well I'm just going to slump,
With my dowager's hump
And watch myself turn into lard.
If a humourous marriage poem is selected, invite a confident person to read it with a touch of drama and flair. Readers should have sufficient time to practice their piece and to understand why you have chosen it.
Favourite Romantic Songs
There are some beautiful old and new love songs which can be used as readings, for example The Rose which was sung by Bette Midler. There is no need to read the entire song, simply choose the verses which are most meaningful.
Weddings With a Whimsical Mood
For Harry Potter fans, create a whimsical atmosphere with a reading from Chapter 8 of Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows:
'Ladies and gentlemen,' said a small tufty-haired wizard. 'We are gathered here today to celebrate the union of two faithful souls...'Do you William Arthur, take Fleur Isabelle...'
In the front row, Mrs Weasley and Madame Delacour were both sobbing quietly into scraps of lace.”
With this excerpt, the bridal couple’s names could be used instead of William and Fleur. Readings used creatively can be a wonderful addition to the wedding ceremony.
A poem which includes the name of the bride or groom can be interesting. This short one is called Jenny Kiss'd Me, written by Leigh Hunt.
References:
The Prophet (Kahlil Gibran. Alfred A Knopf 1932)
Shakespeare's Sonnets ( William Shakespeare. Washington Square Press 2004)
With These Hands: A Collection (Pam Ayres. Orion 1998)
Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows (JK Rowling. Bloomsbury 2007)
A Room With a View (EM Forster. Penguin Books Ltd new Edition 2000)
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Not an ounce
excessive, not an inch too little, Our easy reciprocations. You
let me know The way a boat would feel, if it could feel,
The intimate support of water.
The news you bring me has
been news forever, So that I understand what a stone would say If only a stone could speak. Is it sad a grassblade Can’t
know how it is lovely?
It is said that you can’t know,
except by hearsay (My gossiping failing words) that you are the
way A water is that can clench its palm and crumple A
boat’s confiding timbers?
But that’s excessive, and too
little. Knowing The way a circle would describe its roundness, We touch two selves and fed, complete and gentle, The
intimate support of being.
The way that flight would feel a
bird flying (If it could fed) is the way a space that’s in
A stone that’s in a water would know itself If it had our way of
knowing.
Atlas By U. A. Fanthorre
There is a kind
of love called maintenance, Which stores the WD40 and knows when
to use it;
Which checks the insurance, and doesn’t forget The milkman; which remembers to plant bulbs;
Which
answers letters; which knows the way The money goes; which deals
with dentists
And Road Fund Tax and meeting trains,
And postcards to the lonely; which upholds
The permanently
ricketty elaborate Structures of living; which is Atlas.
And maintenance is the sensible side of love, Which knows
what time and weather are doing To my brickwork; insulates my
faulty wiring; Laughs at my dryrotten jokes; remembers My
need for gloss and grouting; which keeps My suspect edifice
upright in air, As Atlas did the sky.
Tell Me By
Elizabeth Jennings
Tell me where you go When you
look faraway. I find I am too slow
To catch your
mood. I hear The slow and far-off sea And waves that beat
a shore
That could be trying to Call us toward our
end, make us hurry through
This little space of
dark. Yet love can stretch it wide. Each life means so
much work
You are my wealth, my pride. The good
side of me, see That you stay by my side
Two roots
of one great tree.
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Jul 21, 2008 9:28 AM
Elaine Walker :
It's wonderful to see readers' wedding poems and readings, but please keep
each quote to less than 50 words, in case we have copyright restrictions.
Thanks, Elaine