The Wedding Dress is the focal point of the entire Wedding. The flowers, decorations, and music all revolve around the beauty of the bride. Beware of buying or renting a dress that is not aligned with your dreams. The best way to begin a Wedding is with the Bride choosing her own style of dress.
The style of the dress sets the stage. A formal dress depicts a conservative bride and wife-to-be while a short informal dress illustrates a bride willing to take risks and sometimes may be too carefree.
What to Buy?
Before you purchase your wedding gown be sure it is your choice. Do not buy a gown to please your mom or mother-in-law. Feng Shui works with the energy fields that swirl around us at all times. On your wedding, there will be high vibrations all around you with the excitement of your next step in life. The dress, if designed for someone else will bring down the vibrations without your awareness.
For example, you purchase a wedding dress that your mom thinks you look beautiful in. The dress is pretty but in the back of your mind you love the Victorian Dress that everyone says is outdated and you need something that is more suited to your body structure. You take their advice and you leave a part of yourself with the Victorian Dress. You need to ask yourself what is it about that dress your desire? Is it an extension of your personality? Does it speak of your love to your future husband? Or is it something unexplainable. Wear a dress that makes you shine when you see the reflection. Do not wear a dress that reflects your mother-in-law, mom, sister or grandma.
Begin the journey with your husband as a true representation of who you are. Too many marriages start with trying to please others and the most important person for that moment is you and your spouse.
Purchasing a Wedding Gown
Go to a variety of stores and saunter up and down the aisles of dresses. Feel the dress and notice the sensations you feel. Sometimes you will think the dress is awful or be indifferent or fall madly in love with the dress. Usually the first dress your eyes draw upon is the ultimate dress for you
Try on the dresses. Look in the mirror and really feel the dress. How do you feel? Are you comfortable, uncomfortable, sexy, beautiful, plain...?
Blessing the Gown
Vibrations stick to us like honey, once they are on us they are difficult to remove. Your Wedding Gown should be filled with love and great intentions. A way to fill your gown with happiness is to bless it.
Put on your wedding gown and look into a full length mirror. Close your eyes and imagine yourself on your wedding day. Experience the kiss and all the moments, the first dance and other special moments. After you experience the Wedding Day, imagine the life you are embarking on. Feel the sensations of living with your husband, your first meal, your first big purchase and bring all those images to your dress. Every image makes a mark on your dress to be a reminder of your dreams. Your gown is covered with your goals and is a great start to a happy and prosperous marriage.
